I'm not ignoring the feedback, it's more like I've said everything I possibly have to say about it and people just keep posting variations and complications and obfuscations on the idea "this is easier and better" which is genuinely what it all comes back to.
To be clear, I said Seb's idea was a step in the right direction, but I'm not going to do that either, because it's absurd to ask people to submit two arrangements (I think we can all agree there). At this point I'm genuinely going to either have it accepted or not, because this week I'm in Michigan dealing with my grandmother's funeral and post-death arrangements (thanks 2020) so I don't really have time to do much in the way of big changes anyway.
To be clear, I said Seb's idea was a step in the right direction, but I'm not going to do that either, because it's absurd to ask people to submit two arrangements (I think we can all agree there). At this point I'm genuinely going to either have it accepted or not, because this week I'm in Michigan dealing with my grandmother's funeral and post-death arrangements (thanks 2020) so I don't really have time to do much in the way of big changes anyway.