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damn ok

I forgot how blunt alti is sometimes <3

sometimes people wont listen any other way
and sometimes they still wont listen but w/e

Off-Topic / Re: Relationships
« on: October 16, 2017, 08:49:41 PM »
girls arent trophies to be won if you try hard enough

Off-Topic / Re: The Post Your Thoughts of the Moment Thread 2
« on: October 16, 2017, 11:53:31 AM »
again the world isn't against you you're just choosing to play the victim and blame everyone else for your own shortcomings because that's easier than admitting you have issues you need to work on if you want to feel better about yourself.
You can keep wallowing in your own self-pity if you want but just know it's gonna make it seem like the world continues to be against you when people (here and elsewhere) get tired of your shit and refuse to humor you

Off-Topic / Re: Politics
« on: October 16, 2017, 11:51:01 AM »
Whose culture? Yours?

Off-Topic / Re: The Rant Thread/My Life Sucks Topic [Don't be pricks]
« on: October 16, 2017, 11:50:15 AM »
If you think opinions can be "perfect and absolute" you have no fucking idea what the word "opinion" means

Off-Topic / Re: The Post Your Thoughts of the Moment Thread 2
« on: October 16, 2017, 12:13:43 AM »
if you're looking for one and failing to get one it's probably a personal issue tbh :/

Off-Topic / Re: The Post Your Thoughts of the Moment Thread 2
« on: October 15, 2017, 09:39:22 PM »
it's hard to have a desire to help/care about someone who seems hellbent on not actually helping/caring for themselves

Off-Topic / Re: Relationships
« on: October 13, 2017, 04:35:39 PM »
don't analyze your own response either. there's no sense in trying over hard to project a certain attitude tbh just be yourself and see if it works

thx minimod

If there are things to edit, they'll ask you to edit; if it's perfect as is, they'll accept it. As for how long, that really depends. It could be anywhere from a few days to a few months depending on how motivated the updaters are lol


Nintendo / Re: General Pokémon Mystery Dungeon
« on: September 30, 2017, 04:18:13 PM »
I haven't posted it here yet but I started my Explorers of Sky LP on Smogon

Archive / Re: [GBC] Hamtaro: Ham-Hams Unite! - "Minigame" by Altissimo
« on: September 27, 2017, 06:57:08 PM »
how do u even notice that


Archive / Re: [GBC] Hamtaro: Ham-Hams Unite! - "Minigame" by Altissimo
« on: September 27, 2017, 11:42:21 AM »

Off-Topic / Re: Relationships
« on: September 27, 2017, 02:06:24 AM »
Now, I'm not the kind to actively encourage high school dating (it's usually started by raging hormones, doesn't end well, and commonly creates ridiculous drama that quickly gets out of hand)

hooray I get to return to the topic I hate in order to address this! DOn't ask me why im here if I hate this topic i apparently hate myself too i guess.

Anyway I'd actually disagree with this! yes, all of those reasons you listed are true: started by raging hormones, doesn't end well, commonly creates ridiculous drama. That's all true. But I think because of all that being true it also functions as a good learning experience. If you have a relationship that goes south, you can use it as an introspective time to think about - okay, why did it go south? is there anything I can do differently in the future to prevent it going south? What are my wants and needs as a human? - and in my opinion, it's better to focus on that while you're young and have no responsibilities (basically) than waiting on it! I mean, adult relationships can crash and burn too, except when you're an adult you might be... married/engaged, living together, have kids together, split finances, maybe you even crossed the country to be with them. None of that is true in high school. By getting the drama out of the way early (so to speak), I think you end up with a clearer head going into future relationships and have a better idea of both how to treat your partner in a relationship, or know how you want to be treated, or know what issues there might be.

In my case, my high school relationship ended in flames and I grew deeply depressed and suicidal over it! BUT it also helped me to recognize the signs of an emotionally abusive partner. Now imagine if I hadn't had that experience and was now an adult living with an emotionally abusive man without realizing he was emotionally abusive (or, perhaps, realizing it after it was too late). The risks of trying to escape such a situation would be much greater now than they were when we were still minors in high school living with our parents. But now I'm aware of red flags and can call off things early if they look to be headed in that direction. Plus, the fact that it ended up with me in a terribly depressed/suicidal place means that the treatment I got for it has stuck, and now I think I know how I can deal with it if a current/future relationship were to end in flames, without going back to the same level of depression I had then.

Also, like I said, it helped show me what I want in a partner and kind of taught me what my relationship priorities are! And my current boyfriend fulfills a lot of them :B

That said it is still important to remember that high school relationships are dramatic affairs indeed. In order to avoid getting depressed/suicidal like I did, it helps to remember that - this too shall pass. High school relationships rarely work out! That's okay! If it fails, don't get too upset: you have a whole life ahead of you to find other people to be with. Just live in the moment and accept things for what they are, and don't think too heavily about the future, or you'll get attached to one that might not happen.

Just my two cents.

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